So training last night was interesting. No one in my class and not required for the main bit so I went outside to stretch and practice my patterns. Was OK initially but then appeared the toxic person’s daughter who is also involved in the bullying (let’s actually call it like it is) and has also lied about me. Came around to where I was and just plonked herself down. I refuse to even entertain it so I picked my stuff up and went elsewhere where I was in sight of the main door. Unfortunately her mother was in there and decided that instead of sitting where she ordinarily would (I know as I am usually inside the hall) she would stand by the open door so she was directly in my eyeline. I have measures I take when I am alone and could be put in a position where I may have to defend against any further lies in a she said/she said scenario. She did not once approach me or look at me directly that I saw but was whispering with someone else a fair bit. I know she herself sees this as people may be talking about her so also know that it was meant for me and to make me feel uneasy. Death by a Thousand Cuts… It did not work.
The reason all this happened was because our instructor, who knows all about the situation and assists in my managing it, wasn’t there. I almost turned around when I saw his car missing and realised but the fire in me rose up and I said No way! Not today.
I am also going training tonight where I don’t usually. Thankfully my friend will also be there and I have semi confided in her about the situation so I know she will keep her eyes open if he is not there again tonight.
I will be doing another post after training later..
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